It was a beautiful, warm, sunny Southern California day with 7 knots of breeze. We motored out of Marina Del Rey to sea trial Intrepid, a beautiful Frers design Swan 44MkII. Although conditions were not ideal, being on the water was much better than sitting in my cubicle editing spreadsheets.
The sea trial went well and we shipped the boat to the Great Lakes for four years of racing and fresh water cruising. I was content with life until one fateful après ski conversation over a few beers in Sun Valley, Idaho with my dad that led to my quarter life crisis. The conversation went as follows:
Dad: “How is the job going?”
Travis: “It’s going well, I have been working on some big deals lately.”
Dad: “That’s Great! Do you want to do it for the rest of your life?”
Travis: “I sure hope not.”
That was eye opening. I began questioning why I even was doing finance in the first place. I thought about what I enjoy more than anything, and that was being on the water, specifically, sailing. There is nothing in the world like helming on a broad reach with thirty knots over the deck. That is living, not commuting 30 minutes to try to sell people that already have adequate insurance a new policy. At that point, I decided to give my two weeks at my commercial insurance sales job as soon as I returned to Cleveland, and booked a one way flight to Fort Lauderdale to enroll in STCW Basic Safety Training. The quarter life crisis had accelerated.
Since I decided I was going to change careers, I could potentially take a year or two off to sail around the world with my dad when he retired. This would be a massive bucket list item for both of us, and a great father/son bonding opportunity.
Two years later, we shipped the boat back to Marina Del Ray and are prepping for sailing around the world. I have been working on super yachts as a deckhand since I left Cleveland, most recently on Motor Yacht Pacific, and although I loved every minute of that job, I am itching to trade 11,000hp for wind power. Plus, I am promoting myself from Deckhand to Chief Officer, though it isn’t coming with a bump in pay.
7 thoughts on “Trav’s Quarter Life Crisis”
You’ve been talking about this for years so I’m glad you guys are doing this. Safe travels! We’ll be watching jealously from home.
I hope you’re doing well and still getting out on the water a ton! Even if it’s a lake it still counts!
Dear Travis, What a great adventure. So happy you are following that big heart of yours. How fun to tackle this challenge with your dad after his retirement. Peter and I will be fulfilling our retirement bucket list from Southern California this month also! We will be riding our bicycles 3000 miles across country from San Diego to St Augustine. A toast to all of our great adventures. Best of all wishes. Nancy
Hello Nancy! Wow that is a long trip! Good luck with your adventure as well!
Congrats on the promotion. Safe travels buddy.
Great idea doing a blog to document this trip. Can’t wait to live vicariously through these posts for the next year!
Fair winds and following seas!
Thanks for keeping us Sanduskians in the loop. Safe travels.